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The Eldercare Conversation Every Family Needs to Have

September 02, 2026

At our Semi-Annual Economic Luncheon this month, we had the privilege of hearing from Glen 
Smith, JD, founder and attorney at Lifescape Law and Development. Glen's presentation on 
eldercare planning was one of the most impactful moments of the afternoon, and it is a topic I 
believe deserves far more attention than it typically receives.  

Glen has spent over four decades in the legal profession. He began his career in traditional 
estate planning, drafting wills, trusts, and powers of attorney. But over time, he noticed 
something. The questions his clients were asking had changed. They were no longer just asking 
what would happen to their assets when they passed away. They were asking much harder 
questions: How do I get the care I need? Who is going to pay for it? My spouse is overwhelmed. 
What do we do?  

That shift led Glen to reframe the entire conversation around eldercare. As he put it to our 
audience:  

"The question used to be, what happens to you when you die? To your stuff 
and to your loved ones? The bigger question today is what happens to you, 
your loved ones, and your stuff if you get sick and don't die." 

It is a question that stops you in your tracks, and it is one that most families have not adequately 
planned for.  

The Numbers Are Sobering  

Glen shared several statistics that underscored the urgency. Seventy percent of us will need 
some form of assistance by the time we reach 65.1 One in three people will die of Alzheimer's or 
dementia. One in nine aged 65 and older have already been diagnosed with Alzheimer's.2 And 
500,000 new cases are diagnosed each year.3

Perhaps the most surprising finding Glen shared was about loneliness. Loneliness accounts for 
a 31% increase in the risk of Alzheimer's,4 and 21% of Americans over 50 are now living alone.5 
In a room full of people focused on financial planning and investment strategy, the reminder that 
isolation is one of the greatest threats to an aging population was powerful.

Direction, Not Intention 

One line from Glen's presentation has stayed with me since the event. He told the room that 
direction, not intention, determines your destination. Many of the families he works with come in 
with good intentions. They know they should plan. They know they need to address these 
issues. But without a plan that actually moves them in the right direction, good intentions alone 
will not protect them.  

Glen outlined five areas that every family needs to address in their eldercare planning:  
healthcare, housing, finances, legal, and family. These are not areas that can be handled in 
isolation. They intersect and overlap in ways that require a coordinated, multidisciplinary 
approach, which is exactly what Glen and his team at Lifescape provide.  

Why This Matters for Financial Planning  

As a wealth manager, I see firsthand how an unexpected health event or long-term care need 
can reshape a family's financial picture. The costs of care, the legal complexities, the emotional 
toll on spouses and children: these are not abstract risks. They are realities that many of our 
clients will face. Having conversations about eldercare planning now, while you have the time 
and the clarity to make good decisions, is one of the most important things you can do for your 
family.  
Glen's presentation was a reminder that financial planning is about more than markets and 
portfolios. It is about protecting the people you love and ensuring that you are prepared for 
whatever comes next.  

Learn More

If Glen's message resonates with you, I encourage you to reach out to his team at Lifescape 
Law and Development at lifescapelaw.com. And if you would like to discuss how eldercare 
planning fits into your broader financial strategy, our team at Cramer Capital Management is 
here to help.  

Warm regards,

Bruce Cramer

President and Wealth Manager

Cramer Capital Management, LLC

100 N Mill St, Smithville, MO 64089 


Securities offered through Cetera Wealth Services, LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory services offered 
through Cetera Investment Advisers LLC, a Registered Investment Adviser. Cetera is under separate 
ownership from any other named entity.

Sources

1 Administration for Community Living. How Much Care Will You Need? https://acl.gov/ltc/basic
needs/how-much-care-will-you-need  
2 Alzheimer's Association. 2026 Alzheimer's Disease Facts and Figures. alz.org/alzheimers
dementia/facts-figures  
3 Alzheimer's San Diego. Alzheimer's Facts and Statistics. alzsd.org/resources/facts-stats  
4 National Institute on Aging. Loneliness Linked to Dementia Risk in Large-Scale Analysis. 
nia.nih.gov/news/loneliness-linked-dementia-risk-large-scale-analysis  
5 AARP. Older Americans Are Redefining Aging Alone. aarp.org/family-relationships/solo-aging  

This article is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information on the subjects covered. It is not 
intended to provide specific legal, tax, or other professional advice. For specific professional assistance, 
the services of an appropriate professional should be sought. Glen Smith and Lifescape Law and 
Development are not affiliated with Cetera Wealth Services, LLC or Cetera Investment Advisers LLC. 
Information is believed to be from sources considered reliable; however, accuracy and completeness 
cannot be guaranteed.